by Curtis Alexander, Pharm.D.
America’s Natural Pharmacist
Summary: A vasectomy procedure is a sterilization method for men that should be considered, for practical purposes, permanent. The procedure for vasectomy is usually completed with local anesthetic in under an hour in the doctor office. The majority of men report satisfaction with their decision. But the men who have problems have them bad and it can be a long, agonizing recovery period that can last for a year or even permanently.
At some point in time most couples, or sometimes even individuals, opt to look into sterilization. Often times, because women were the ones who bore the brunt of child carrying and rearing the man is ‘volunteered’ for a sterilization procedure. The vasectomy.
I opted for the vasectomy and was very comfortable with it…until the night before the procedure.
Out of curiosity I went online to see exactly how the procedure would be performed as I had not decided on an open-ended or closed-ended procedure. In a closed-ended procedure the doctor closes both sides of the cut vas defrens. In the open the doctor only closes of one side of each vas leaving the ’supply’ sides open. In theory, the sperm that are released are consumed and destroyed by your body.
This was something that wasn’t discussed ahead of time by my doctor. In fact, I didn’t even meet with my doctor before the procedure. It was as simple as calling up the nurse, setting an appointment and then looking at a vasectomy procedure video they sent me via email. For a guy who is a pharmacist that should have been a big red flag right there.
It wasn’t until I got online that I started discovering some guys really have problems with vasectomy procedures.
Vasectomy Issues
Now, before I get into my specific reasons for not getting a vasectomy let me say two things:
- Most guys, and by most I would say 85% to 90%, have little or no problems other than the tenderness that comes from this kind of procedure.
- Guys who do have problems seem to get them bad. By that I mean their reports show bruising of the testicular sack, testicle tenderness for up to a year or more out and a lot of other unpleasant things. In fact, many men who have the tenderness state that it is not the kind of pain you can ever get rid of no matter how you sit, etc. It is just always there. There can be auto-immune reactions when a mans system has to handle eliminating more sperm. In short, your body has had it’s plumbing realigned and so now your body has to get rid of more sperm that has no where to go. So, the cells in your body ‘chew up’ or destroy the extra sperm. Sometimes this causes immune system problems.
In worst case scenarios men report that the vasectomy was the worst decision they ever made and that their sex lives were ruined because of a lack of sex drive due to the pain that does not go away. Also, some men report that their testosterone levels plummeted after the procedure. I originally didn’t know how much weight to put in this but if you consider that it is possible to have scarring from the procedure, which in turn can damage the cells producing testosterone it’s plausible. However, the final word on this subject from numerous sources is conflicting.
In short, the most troublesome and common long term or permanent side effect of a vasectomy is the often dull, sometimes sharp and pointing pain in the testicles.
Often times men report that the only way to relieve the pain is to get a vasectomy reversal which is not always 100% successful, is much more complicated surgically and is not covered by insurance. The cost estimates I have seen have been $6,000 to over $8000.
While the brochures say there should be no change physically for you. Many men also report that their orgasms are less intense than before.
Some of this is anecdotal and you probably can’t put much in it. But even some of the studies they’ve done about vasectomies clearly show there can be problems. Your decision is whether or not you are willing to take those chances.
After exhausting all my options and reading up on everything I felt that there was probably a 3% to 10% chance of bothersome, long term side effects from the procedure. Granted, that’s not real high but when you are talking about an area as sensitive as that one I eventually elected not to roll the dice.
Another Option
There are also other sterilization options that your wife might be interested in. One is called Essure. It’s basically a walk-in procedure that is about as invasive as the vasectomy itself where ‘plugs’ – for lack of a better term – are inserted in the womans fallopian tubes and over time they essentially become part of the fallopian tube and block them. Within 3 months the woman should be sterile. Unlike the vasectomy, Essure is definitely NOT reversible.
Both my wife and I looked into this option and she elected not to have it done as she was uncomfortable with things being inserted in here and so forth. There was no fight from me as I could totally understand. Also, after you read around a bit I found evidence that the side effects with Essure, while rare, could also be very troublesome for the woman. Not worth it.
I think the point is is that my wife and I are very holistic people. While we don’t want anymore children we also don’t want to take the chance of having the kind of side effects that can come from sterilization procedures like a vasectomy. Yes, it could be more ‘convenient’ but it could also be a long term, painful and regrettable decision. When it involves that area that’s not a decision I take lightly.
If you are a man also be aware that some people will just think you are being a wimp. “Your wife has done all the painful stuff and all you have to do is get a couple of snips and some sore balls for a week and you won’t do it?” will likely be a common reaction behind your back. Is that something you can deal with?
I know that people probably feel that way about my decision and I understand that. But they simply aren’t very well informed and they also don’t know me very well if they think that it’s the actual procedure that scares me.
Vasectomy Resources
At any rate, this is just one man’s view who decided not to get the vasectomy performed. If you’d like some more non-biased resources about making the decision that is right for you check out these sights:
http://www.vasectomy-information.com/
Also, here are some stories that I think are must-reading for any man considering a vasectomy. I don’t put them here to change your mind or scare you but simply to give you the other side of the fence that the glossy four colored brochures in your doctor’s office don’t:
http://www.vasectomy-information.com/stories/featuredstory.htm
also…
http://www.vasectomy-information.com/stories/tony3.htm
As an aside, I also know at least a half dozen men personally who’ve had the procedure without any sort of physical or mental fallout. They had the procedure done and would likely do so again. One guy did say that his orgasms are a little different. Not bad, just different and a little less intense. Other than that it was a great decision for them.
I also met one man who did have long-term complications from the procedure. It is better now but the pain lasted for over a year. I don’t know if he is 100% back to normal but the procedure definitely caused complications for him.
The point is also ask around on your own to a lot of guys. You’ll likely find most men in the happy camp and a few stragglers in the ‘it was a terrible decision and I’d never do it again’ camp. I didn’t want to take the chance on falling into the latter group.
The most important thing for you in making this decision is to not take it lightly. Either you or your wife. So don’t. Read up. Educate yourself. And then make the decision that is right for you.
Update: I recently got an email from Dr. A. Ellis, M.D. He elected to have the surgery performed and had extreme complications from it. In his own words he said “it was the worst decision I ever made in my life.” He developed PVPS (Post Vasectomy Pain Syndrome) and opted for a vasectomy reversal procedure which cost him $8,000 out of pocket because insurances do not cover it.
The end result? The reversal procedure did NOT work. He still has pain and is taking pain killers to deal with the fallout. He said he has not had a pain free day in over 2 years.
He started his own website where he talks about the little talked about problems with vasectomies at http://www.painaftervasectomy.org/ . He also cites a number of studies and survey’s that were performed on men who had vasectomies. Interesting stuff that you often hear little about.